4 IMPORTANT NIGHT TIME ROUTINES FOR EVERY COUPLE

Lately I’ve been laying more emphasis on relationships and marriages just because of the recent happening these days, if not domestic violence today, it will be divorce tomorrow, we need to encourage one another and tell ourselves the truth, marriage is not a bed of roses, it has its ups and downs just like every relationship, the couple involved have to decide whether to make it work or not.
Night time routines do not have to be seen as something negative in your relationship use the time well to bond with your partner. Take advantage of the time you spend together before bed to increase the love between the two of you.

You can create a new routine together implementing these 4 habits every night, and you will begin to see how the day-to-day tasks will become lighter and happier as a result.

Talk peacefully

Soon after bathing take time for your spouse, even if it is only 20 minutes, and talk about what happened during the day. Ask how work was, discuss your children (if you have any) and their daily activities, address politics or anything else that is interesting between the two of you. Try to talk with love and compassion, because you do not want to end up fighting before bed, but to relax with your spouse. Do not discuss highly complicated issues. Conversations regarding conflicts that cannot be resolved in 20 minutes. Besides, nothing is worse than a heated discussion before bed that can lead to sleepless nights. If you guys have been having some issues, try sorting it out amicably before bed.

Read together

Take the time to read each of your favourite books before you go to bed comment on what you read. Or even read the Bible together to increase your faith and draw closer together spiritually. Reading and learning new things together will help you draw closer together.

Pray together

Pray together and pray for your spouse. Praying with your spouse is a pure and innocent way to include God in your relationship. Prayers also help the couple involved be more grateful for one another and recognise the value that their spouse offers in their lives.

We know that marriage is not easy; it is very laborious. The couple has to face problems together far beyond the problems of coexistence. It is always good to seek God’s help to strengthen the relationship. Praying together gives strength to the couple and allows them to move on and face the difficulties of each day.

Small acts of affection

Be affectionate with one another. Caress, massage, cuddle, hold hands and kiss. Being physically close to your spouse will help you relax and also relieve everyday stress. A happy and affectionate marriage does not need to be intimate all night to have a happy marriage, but a genuine awareness of being physically close to one another.

These habits become remedies against the stress of everyday life. It will improve the living, love, harmony and peace in the home. Begin today and implement these 4 habits before bed with your spouse and your marriage will never be the same.

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    Sisters and Glitters
    August 25, 2016 at 3:37 am

    I love your articles, you always have such good tips and wisdom! xo, Sophia from http://www.sistersandglitters.com

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    TinyTiff
    August 25, 2016 at 11:16 am

    Great tips! I always believe never to let the sun set on your anger so that you will rise in peace. thanks for sharing & have a great day

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    Lauren
    August 25, 2016 at 11:16 am

    Lovely post, definitely one to bear in mind.

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    Adrika
    August 25, 2016 at 6:06 pm

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    Bernadette Angelie Pangilinan
    August 25, 2016 at 6:06 pm

    Great post, this has hit me so hard 🙁 Guilty of not doing these things with my partner. 🙁

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    Rach DiMare
    August 25, 2016 at 6:06 pm

    These are great tips and advices! I definitely think this is what helps keep couples connected.

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    August 25, 2016 at 6:07 pm

    Love your blog, your style is so fresh and I got so much inspirations from your posts, I really love it!
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    Irene Thayer
    August 25, 2016 at 6:07 pm

    This is so inspiring! I love the post:)

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    Joti Singh
    August 25, 2016 at 6:40 pm

    Great reminders!!

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    Chelsea Marrs
    August 26, 2016 at 8:24 am

    These are great ideas! We read together and it's great to get away from technology and be in the moment!

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    Christina Lau
    August 26, 2016 at 8:24 am

    I love these ideas! They are so simple but impactful. I absolutely value peaceful talks with my boyfriend!

    Best,
    Christina

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    Adrika
    August 26, 2016 at 8:25 am

    great psot
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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 8:53 am

    Thanks you so much darling.

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    Precious Nkeih
    August 26, 2016 at 10:50 am

    Thanks for sharing, Tessy!
    Praying together certainly works.

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 10:54 am

    Thanks dear.

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 10:55 am

    Thanks dear.

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 10:56 am

    Thanks dear.

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 10:58 am

    Aww! Its not late.. Thanks dear.

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 11:00 am

    So true, thanks dear.

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 11:00 am

    Aww! Thanks dear. I will

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 11:01 am

    Thanks dear.

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 11:01 am

    Thank you sweet.

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 11:02 am

    Aww! Thats so sweet.Thank you

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 11:08 am

    Thank you so much Chelsea.

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 11:08 am

    Thank you.

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    Tessy Onyia
    August 26, 2016 at 11:09 am

    Thank you darling.

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    August 27, 2016 at 10:36 am

    Gorgeous date night look! =)

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    Gloria Okaiman
    August 27, 2016 at 1:45 pm

    Great tips especially the praying together part. Beautiful blog too..

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    Tatjana
    August 27, 2016 at 9:36 pm

    Great article! I am getting married in 2 weeks.
    Thanks so much love,
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    August 28, 2016 at 11:05 pm

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    September 14, 2016 at 1:28 pm

    Great tips thank you. Gemma x
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    Paola Lauretano
    September 19, 2016 at 5:54 am

    This post is so inspiring! Great gtips Tessy!!!
    Have a great week!
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    September 19, 2016 at 12:11 pm

    Such a nice article!!!!! I loved it!!!!

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    Margot
    September 21, 2016 at 12:21 pm

    Such lovely tips ! I love it.
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    Tamara Farhat
    September 22, 2016 at 5:32 pm

    This is beautiful and I totally agree with those tips!

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    September 24, 2016 at 9:33 pm

    You're absolutely right, it's hard work but it's possible.

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