Fear is your enemy. Someone once described fear as, “Sand in the machinery of life.” Fear doesn’t help you, it hinders you. Fear doesn’t get you through an open door; it keeps you in the hallway.Fear never helps you put your best foot forward; it just keeps both of your feet in cement.
The psychology of today is, “Learn to live with your fears”, “Embrace your fears”, “It’s normal to have fears everybody does.”I do too
It’s true; lots of people do have fears. And there are people who are trying to learn how to live with their fears, and embrace them.
But if it’s “normal” to have fears, then why would the Bible talk about being delivered from all your fears?
Think about it if it’s normal to have fears, and you had no fears, then you would be abnormal, right? Well why would God want you to be abnormal?
He doesn’t. He truly desires for you to be set free from all your fears.
People do things, say things, and even buy things because of the fear that they have of what others think of them, but why do you really care?
You don’t have to live with fear.
Here are 3 simple keys to getting rid of fear.
First, start by realizing that God truly loves you and that His love for you is unconditional.
Third, make decisions based on what is best for you, not how it may or may not appear to others. You’ll never, ever be able to please everyone, so stop trying to. You’ll never, ever be right in everybody’s eyes, so stop trying to.
When you make a decision, ask yourself, “Why am I making this decision? Is it based on fear?” Make decisions based on what is right and best for your life, regardless of what others think.
You can live without fear, sure you can!
I would love to hear your view on this topic, kindly use the comment box.
Lots of love
dela belle kJuly 30, 2016 at 3:24 pm
I have social anxiety. I hate being around a lot of people but I know its something that I have to overcome if I really want to be a successful influencer.
Tessy OnyiaJuly 30, 2016 at 3:27 pm
Surely you will overcome it darling..Thank you so much for being so open. Sending loads of hugs to you.xoxo
Paola LauretanoJuly 31, 2016 at 9:55 am
Great post, really interesting!
Y_d DAugust 1, 2016 at 2:07 pm
I am currently reading a book and a part of it talks about fear. Perhaps, it is best described by this line: "What holds us back in life is the invisible architecture of fear." – Robin Sharma
I believe there is nothing wrong with being afraid because it also gives you a chance to be brave.
Tessy OnyiaAugust 1, 2016 at 2:09 pm
Thanks Paola, sending you loads of hugs and kisses.
Tessy OnyiaAugust 1, 2016 at 2:11 pm
Aww! Exactly! Your comment is so on point..Thanks Yd!
Hannah WillAugust 1, 2016 at 11:53 pm
Love this post! I definitely agree that you cannot possibly please everyone. Do what makes you happy 🙂
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Tessy OnyiaAugust 1, 2016 at 11:53 pm
Exactly, Thanks Hannah.
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