Love is such a wonderful thing that when shared by two people, the feelings becomes mutual and the gratifications achieved. All of these are established during dating.
Dating becomes the primary selection ground for people who wish to end up with somebody they can grow old with. It provides them with the means to find the right person whom they can share their sentiments, their feelings, problems, etc.
However, even if it seems that two people are already mutual with regards to their feelings, there are instances that one of them would ask if their mate is the right person for them. They can feel that they are happy as of the moment but when the concept of finding the right person sinks in, a lot of questions take place.
Even if everything seems to be in perfect condition and that dates are always pleasurable and gratifying, no one can be sure if his or her mate is the right person unless he or she will make extra effort to analyse the situation and the person he or she is currently involved with.
So, for people who wish to know if the person they are dating right now is the right person or if what they are doing is right or wrong, here are some tips on how to identify the real score of the person they are dealing with.
1. It would be better for an individual to assess his or her feelings about the other person.
In order to know if an individual has already found the right person, it is best to assess their feelings towards the other person.
Hence, it would be better to assess if the concerned individual likes what he or she is seeing or if they can tolerate the personality of the other person.
In the event that the other person has some qualities that are not that desirable, it would be better for the individual to be sure of their feelings about the unlikely behaviour. If they think that they can withstand and endure those things even if it will not change, chances are, they have found the right person.
The other person may not literally be righteous but the fact that the concerned individual can accept whatever the other person is, then, it must be love.
2. If the concerned person will get to accept the other person’s faults or shortcomings not because of some hopes that someday he or she will change, then, it must be the right person.
One should realise that accepting somebody should never be conditional. This means that when a person accepts someone who has qualities not included in his or her concept of an ideal mate, he or she should not pose some conditions or expect some things regarding future changes.
3. If there are no obstacles that will in time kill the flame of love, then, it must be the right person.
If in the event that an individual finds somebody and they feel that the relationship is finally the real thing, it would still be better to assess if there will be no more impediments that would curb the growth of a wonderful relationship.
This simply means that the person should be sure that there will be no elements or factors that will trigger some problems in their relationship in the future.
If the coast is clear, then, the concerned person has finally found his or her right mate and in no time the relationship will flourish and be successful.
All of these things are boiled down to the fact that love is not 100% perfect. People should realise that there are no such things as perfect people. As humans, people are susceptible to mistakes, imperfections, flaws, and whatever weaknesses man is destined to entail in his or her personality.
So, the best thing to use when identifying the right person is the careful analysis of the individual as a whole and not just the physical attributes where the substantial attraction is usually based on and also don’t forget to pray about it.
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Comfycozyup
September 11, 2016 at 11:39 pmInteresting post! I'm single, so I can't relate since I struggle to get to the second date. However, I hope to one day be able to identify or see these signs.
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Yiotou_La
September 12, 2016 at 9:47 amYes, all points are correct. I strongly believe that you immediately know it when the other person is the right for you. It offers you comfort, security, shows unconditional love and you are willing to compromise and forgive some of his/her faults.
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September 12, 2016 at 9:47 amgood morning Tessy,
Great post and anything concerning relationships and marriage should be taken with all seriousness. The part you wrote about dating and using that period to know each other is something to me is the greatest part before two people become couple and should be the guidance when married.
sometimes when i see couple breaking up and divorcing, i usually ask myself, didnt they date/court to know each other properly.
Like u said, love is a beautiful thing, yes it is but with the right partner.
Paola Lauretano
September 12, 2016 at 9:47 amLovely post, Such an interesting reading, as usual!
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September 12, 2016 at 9:47 amQue bonito, me encanta el post!
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Hannah Will
September 12, 2016 at 9:48 amWhat a lovely post 🙂 I totally agree, you just know when you know!!
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September 12, 2016 at 9:48 amAwe what a cute post
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September 12, 2016 at 11:34 amAdore this post!
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September 12, 2016 at 1:20 pmSuch a lovely post, and so many great points on knowing if! Xx
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September 12, 2016 at 1:21 pmLoved reading your post!!
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September 12, 2016 at 8:08 pmGreat post dear!
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Alice Red
September 12, 2016 at 8:08 pmI'm single, but I'll remember this for the future! Hopefully I'll need these tips one day 😉
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September 12, 2016 at 8:08 pmGreat post! Enjoyed reading Gemma x
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Paula Lopes
September 12, 2016 at 8:09 pmGreat post! Love renders us so many experiences, it is very good to share them. Have a blessed day, kisses!
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Tessy Onyia
September 12, 2016 at 10:52 pmOh Lovely dear.Thanks for reading hun.
Tessy Onyia
September 13, 2016 at 12:42 amThank you dear.
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September 13, 2016 at 12:43 amThank you!
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September 13, 2016 at 12:43 amThank you!
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September 13, 2016 at 12:43 amThank you.
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September 13, 2016 at 12:44 amThank you!
Tessy Onyia
September 13, 2016 at 12:45 amAww! Thank you so much Brenda! So so true hun.
Tessy Onyia
September 13, 2016 at 12:45 amSo true! Thank you dear.
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September 13, 2016 at 12:45 amThank you dear.
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September 13, 2016 at 12:46 amThank you dearest.
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September 13, 2016 at 12:46 amThank you dear.
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September 13, 2016 at 12:49 amThank you!So true love.
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September 13, 2016 at 12:49 amThank you!
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September 13, 2016 at 12:50 amThank you.
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September 13, 2016 at 12:50 amThank you hun.
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September 13, 2016 at 12:51 amThank you dearie, you will hun.
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September 13, 2016 at 12:51 amThank you pretty.
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Nataliya Ogle
September 13, 2016 at 2:00 amWhat a great writeup! I totally agree. Also, wanted to add that it's very important to discuss future goals you might want as individuals and together to make sure the other person wants the same thing. I've heard of so many couples who split because their future goals aren't aligned. 🙁
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Chichi
September 13, 2016 at 9:51 amyes i completely agree with those! i feel if u can just be yourself with someone, that person can be ur right match.
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September 13, 2016 at 3:47 pmThis is such an extremely lovely post! Thanks for sharing!
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Naomella
September 13, 2016 at 5:13 pmA lovely post! In my case it was love at first sight! When I saw my hubby for the very first time, I knew he's the one 🙂 xoxo
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September 13, 2016 at 5:13 pmGreat post, lady!
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September 13, 2016 at 5:13 pmSuch a great post!
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September 13, 2016 at 8:48 pmGreat post babe! x
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Tessy Onyia
September 14, 2016 at 1:09 amThank you.
Tessy Onyia
September 14, 2016 at 1:16 amSo true! Thank you.
Tessy Onyia
September 14, 2016 at 1:17 amSo true, thanks darling.
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September 14, 2016 at 1:17 amThank you!
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September 14, 2016 at 1:18 amThank you hun!
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September 14, 2016 at 1:18 amThank you.Sure dearie.
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September 14, 2016 at 1:19 amThank you pretty.
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September 14, 2016 at 1:20 amAww! So sweet. Thank you.
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September 14, 2016 at 1:20 amThanks pretty.
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September 14, 2016 at 1:21 amThank you.
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September 14, 2016 at 1:21 amThank you.
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September 14, 2016 at 1:22 amThank you.
Nwamaka Ajaegbu
September 14, 2016 at 8:38 amI love love. So I love this post! When you find the perfect one, you'd know. The peace in your heart can tell.
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September 15, 2016 at 8:46 pmDefinitely needed to read this today! So helpful xx
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Sauniya
September 25, 2016 at 4:35 pmGreat read. I think you have to be the right person and then attract the right person. and like you said, there is no perfection and both people have to be willing to compromise.
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