Hello my beautiful people how are we doing today? Its been a while I posted in here, am so sorry, the holiday was jam packed with activities, on Saturday I and the kids had a lot of fun exercising, playing around and then on Sunday we went for a colleagues baby naming ceremony at Lekki, then on Monday, I cleaned the house and cooked all I could and also prepare for the week. But hopefully I will be more active here because I have a lot of posts to drop please do stick around.
Body shaming in women these days is so alarming that any sane person will stop and be like what the heck is really going on? What competition are we all dragging for sef ? Is it world cup? please come and take it.
Today I thank God for my life, for whom he has molded me into, all thanks to my parents for training us so well to the admiration of the world.
Also thank God for maturity, sincerely since I got married, I’ve seen this world from another perspective, things no longer bother me, I tend to care more for people, I tend to help more, that’s just the spirit..its something I know I don’t normally do when I was single not that I don’t do it oh but I think I enjoy helping people, hearing them out, feeling their pains rather than laughing at them, I just wish everyone could view life from that perspective and this world will be a better place.
Well, I joined a group recently on Facebook (name withheld) and the group has been so inspiring that nothing else bothers me, I can totally pour out my mind and know am in a safe heaven, but for now nothing is bothering yours truly.
Why do I say this, I’ve learnt a lot, seen a lot, read a lot to know that what ever you are feeling right now that you are not alone my sister,someone is else is going through the same if not worse.
I’ve met beautiful souls, learnt that life is so easy to live if only we can make it more habitable for ourselves, that this life is do your own bit and leave the rest to God. Don’t hurt no one and let no one hurt you, even if they hurt you, simply forgive and move in its so healthy that way, Oh yes it is ! What is life after all?
I was in a group chat some days ago and a lady claimed that she is prettier and slimmer than her neighbor and that when she passes by, her neighbor which is older than will run inside and hide, what the heck??? who the story help? and I was so speechless, I couldn’t even find a word to voice out or even drop a comment! Why cant you call her out and talk to her and help her make some changes, since you claim you are older than her then you should be able to advice and not body shame her simple! Since you have noticed what she does, its probably not the first or the second time she will be doing that,
You don’t even know half of what that person is passing through and you can never know except you ask her, why cant you just encourage the new mum, yes new mum because she said she is married with a child or so, and I read that thing that day and I wept in my soul, what have you gained right now after body shaming her in public without her consent?
We really need to change our concept, our ways of thinking, our idea, our ways of seeing things, you are not the best, someone else out there will still be better than you, body shaming your fellow human is so unhealthy, very bad, doesn’t help you in any way, It will rather make your mind myopic to some things and make you more jealous and restless.
Little advice for you all just in case you guys fall into this category, a woman has a lot of things going through her body soul and mind, body shaming her will be the last thing you can ever think of doing.. be good to one another, be kind to your fellow woman, encourage and do not tear her apart.
Live and lets live.
Have a fabulous week ahead guys.